24 (1999): 413–34.
«Он вовсе не потерялся»: "Tragicomedia with Comic Janice Messitte on Being a Newly Wedded Widow," Art for Your Sake, March 20, 2014: http://artforyoursake.com/tragicomedia-with-comic-janice-messitte-on-being-a-newly-wedded-widow/.
«Смерть – это конец жизни»: Robert Woodruff Anderson, I Never Sang for My Father (New York: Random House, 1968).
когда люди влюбляются: Anita L. Vangelisti and Daniel Perlman, eds., The Cambridge Handbook of Personal Relationships (New York: Cambridge University Press, 2006).
сто тридцать пар новобрачных пригласили: John M. Gottman, James Coan, Sybil Carrere, and Catherine Swanson, "Predicting Marital Happiness and Stability from Newlywed Interactions," Journal of Marriage and Family 60 (1998): 5–22; John Gottman, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (New York: Three Rivers Press, 2000).
определяет стойкие отношения: Jane E. Dutton and Emily Heaphy, "The Power of High-Quality Connections," in Positive Organizational Scholarship: Foundations of a New Discipline, ed. Kim S. Cameron, Jane E. Dutton, and Robert E. Quinn (San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler, 2003).
пары нередко замечают, что огонек угас: Arthur Aron, Christina C. Norman, Elaine N. Aron, et al., "Couples' Shared Participation in Novel and Arousing Activities and Experienced Relationship Quality," Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 78 (2000): 273–84.
В парах, чей брак сохранился: John M. Gottman, Janice Driver, and Amber Tabares, "Repair During Marital Conflict in Newlyweds: How Couples Move from Attack-Defend to Collaboration," Journal of Family Psychotherapy 26 (2015): 85–108.
Всего трех записей, на каждую из которых отводилось семь минут: Eli J. Finkel, Erica B. Slotter, Laura B. Luchies, et al., "A Brief Intervention to Promote Conflict Reappraisal Preserves Marital Quality over Time," Psychological Science 24 (2013): 1595–601.
«Я не буду шокировать вас»: Allen Rucker, The Best Seat in the House: How I Woke Up One Tuesday and Was Paralyzed for Life (New York: Harper-Collins, 2007).
1. «Нет, это слон»: J. B. Handelsman, The New Yorker Collection / The Cartoon Bank.
2. Карточки эмпатии использованы с разрешения Emily McDowell Studio.
3. «Странно, я здесь, в комнате, но никто этого не признает»: Leo Cullum, The New Yorker Collection / The Cartoon Bank.
4. «Джошуа и Кейла», Тимоти Чамберс.
5. Доска сожалений: "We Asked People to Tell Us Their Biggest Regrets – But What They All Had in Common Was Heartbreaking," A Plus, January 22, 2016: http://aplus.com/a/clean-slate-blackboard-experiment