38 (1997): 313–23; Minkyung Koo, Sara B. Algoe, Timothy D. Wilson, and Daniel T. Gilbert, "It's a Wonderful Life: Mentally Subtracting Positive Events Improves People's Affective States, Contrary to Their Affective Forecasts,"
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 95 (2008): 1217–24.
Психологи предложили группе людей каждую неделю составлять список: Robert A. Emmons and Michael E. McCullough, "Counting Blessings Versus Burdens: An Experimental Investigation of Gratitude and Subjective Well-Being in Daily Life," Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 84 (2003): 377–89.
Те, кто начал работать: Emily C. Bianchi, "The Bright Side of Bad Times: The Affective Advantages of Entering the Workforce in a Recession," Administrative Science Quarterly 58 (2013): 587–623.
В России каждый второй: World Bank Group, "The Russian Economy Inches Forward: Will That Suffice to Turn the Tide?" (Washington, D.C.: 2016).
60 % американцев сталкивались в своей жизни с событиями: "Americans' Financial Security: Perception and Reality," The Pew Charitable Trusts, по состоянию на 14 декабря 2016 г.: www.pewtrusts.org/en/research-and-analysis/issue-briefs/2015/02/americans-financial-security-perceptions-and-reality.
Смерть партнера часто влечет: Mariko Lin Chang, Shortchanged: Why Women Have Less Wealth and What Can Be Done About It (New York: Oxford University Press, 2010).
к этому добавляются материальные трудности: Alicia H. Munnell and Nadia S. Karamcheva, "Why Are Widows So Poor?" Center for Retirement Research at Boston College Brief IB#7-9, по состоянию на 14 декабря 2016 г.: http://crr.bc.edu/briefs/why-are-widows-so-poor/.
2. Гоните слона из комнаты
«друг, не задающий вопросов»: Tim Urban, "10 Types of Odd Friendships You're Probably Part Of," Wait but Why, December 2014: http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/12/10-types-odd-friendships-youre-probably-part.html. Доказательства того, что люди больше нравятся окружающим, когда задают больше вопросов, см. в: Karen Huang, Mike Yeomans, Alison Wood Brooks, et al., "It Doesn't Hurt to Ask: Question-Asking Encourages Self-Disclosure and Increases Liking," Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
«Наш ребенок умирает снова»: Mitch Carmody, цит. по: Linton Weeks, "Now We Are Alone: Living On Without Our Sons," All Things Considered, NPR, September 3, 2010: www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128977776.
термин «эффект мумии»: Sidney Rosen and Abraham Tesser, "On Reluctance to Communicate Undesirable Information: The MUM Effect,"