(New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975).
Глава 4
1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 162.
2. Dennis Wholey, The Courage to Change (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1984), 207.
3. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 55.
4. Там же, стр. 53.
5. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 32.
Глава 5
1. Эта цитата из раздаточного материала под заглавием «Отстранение», содержащего коллекцию высказываний анонимных участников Ал-Анон.
2. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976), 89.
3. Al-Anon Family Groups, One Day at a Time in Al-Anon (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., 1976).
4. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 47.
5. Terence Williams, Free to Care: Therapy for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975).
6. Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair.
7. Carolyn W., Detaching with Love (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1984), 5.
8. Lois Walfrid Johnson, Either Way, I Win: A Guide to Growth in the Power of Prayer (Minneapolis: Augsburg, 1979).
9. Эрни Ларсен проводит похожее упражнение на медитацию в конце своих семинаров.
Глава 6
1. William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany Fellowship, 1980).
Глава 7
1. Eda LeShan, “Beware the Helpless,” Woman’s Day, 26 April 1983.
Глава 8
1. Claude M. Steiner, Scripts People Live (New York: Grove Press, 1974).
2. Там же; Claude M. Steiner, Games Alcoholics Play (New York: Grove Press, 1971) и Claude M. Steiner, What Do You Say After You Say Hello? (New York: Grove Press, 1972).
Глава 9
1. Penelope Russianoff, Why Do I Think I’m Nothing Without a Man? (New York: Bantam Books, 1982); Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate; An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 278.
2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 56.
3. Rubin, Compassion, 196.
4. Colette Dowling, The Cinderella Complex: Women’s Hidden Fear of Independence (New York: Pocket Books, 1981).
5. Там же, стр. 152–153
6. Там же.
7. Russianoff,