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8. Dowling, The Cinderella Complex, 22.

9. Kathy Capell-Sowder, “On Being Addicted to the Addict: Co-Dependent Relationships,” in Co-Dependency, 23. См. тж. Stanton Peele and Archie Brodsky, Love and Addiction (New York: New American Library, 1975).

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1. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 53.

2. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975), 65.

3. Там же.

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1. Theodore I. Rubin with Eleanor Rubin, Compassion and Self-Hate: An Alternative to Despair (New York: David McKay Company, 1975); Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983).

2. Robert Subby and John Friel, “Co-Dependency: A Paradoxical Dependency,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 40.

3. Rubin, Compassion.

4. Там же.

5. Branden, Honoring the Self.

6. Там же, стр. 76.

7. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Erroneous Zones (New York: Funk and Wagnalls, 1976).

8. Toby Rice Drews, Getting Them Sober (South Plainfield, NJ: Bridge Publishing, 1980), vol.1, xxi.

9. Branden, Honoring the Self, 1–4.

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1. Joseph L. Kellerman, A Guide for the Family of the Alcoholic (New York: Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, 1984), 8–9.

2. Janet Geringer Woititz, “Co-Dependency: The Insidious Invader of Intimacy,” in Co-Dependency, An Emerging Issue (Hollywood, FL: Health Communications, 1984), 55.

3. Там же, стр. 59.

4. Harold A. Swift and Terence Williams, Recovery for the Whole Family (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1975).

5. Nathaniel Branden, Honoring the Self: Personal Integrity and the Heroic Potentials of Human Nature (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1983), 62–65.

6. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, On Death and Dying (New York: MacMillan Publishing, 1969).

7. Melody Beattie, Denial (Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1986).

8. Claudia L. Jewett, Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss (Harvard, MA: The Harvard Common Press, 1982), 29.

9. Там же, стр. 23, 29.

10. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? (Allen, TX: Argus Communications, 1969), 116–17.

11. Kübler-Ross, On Death and Dying, 99–100.

12. Judi Hollis, Fat Is a Family Affair (San Francisco: Harper/Hazelden, 1986), 80.

13. Donald L. Anderson, Better Than Blessed (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1981), 11.

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1. John Powell, Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am?